r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • May 03 '24

AIO because my wife took our cats when moving

Soooo, my wife is moving because of us not working out anymore. A lot of abuse from her like, shit gets deep. I believe she is narcissistic but im not a psychologist so what do I know? When she was moving we discussed everything, we didnt get divorce yet. We still thought we might work things out but not anymore. We discussed the cats and agreed that they should stay with me since I have been taking care of them for years by my self, like she has done not one single chore for these cats. Im sure if she keeps them their litter box wont be cleaned for weeks at a time. She never takes care of them and they have medical issues right now and require special care. I am totally losing my mind, she just took them with her when moving taking her things out of the house. She said don't be at the house and leave and I left, she then proceeded to steal the fucking cats. They are like my kids I really need them for support right now too I am just crying like crazy can't believe this. She quite literally took them with lies when we agreed they should have stayed with me. Called the cops they said you guys need to get a document of separation and write the ownership on that document. Until then as we are married I cant pursue legal action at all because its not technically stealing apparently:D im loosing it yall tell me somethingg

update; I got my cats back but she wants to take them back next week, imma fight thos during divorce as im filing it for it during the weekday as lawyers dont work weekends

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u/[deleted] May 03 '24

im never deleting this post so if people see it I quite literally took 150mg 3-mmc and 300ug to process this whole fucking mess while listening to 454 and idk wihtout all this id be fucking going nuttytss

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u/Cats-cats-cats-dog May 03 '24

I don’t know what this all means, but just making you’re okay physically. Please don’t give up when times are hard. I’m praying your cats are okay. When my husband and I were separated he took the cat. It was the worst thing ever. He felt bad and got me another one…hubby and I are back together and I’ve had the kitty for 10 years now. Hang in there!!

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u/[deleted] May 03 '24

yea dont worry im responsible with my drug use, im phsycly welll just fucking mentally torn

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u/itonlydistracts May 03 '24

So, actually no. 3-mmc is not a casual drug, it’s a hardcore RC that is not only super illegal but also highly addictive. So now, I have to feel like perhaps we are not getting the full story and maybe the cats are better off with your wife for now. I think it’s time to sober up and focus with a clear mind on what’s happening to your life around you. You’re losing it dude.

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u/[deleted] May 03 '24

dude iv been a responsible drug user for longer then 15 years with no issues of health or responsibilities to speak of :D thsts not the issue I have trust me but I got many